Where am i going wrong dating

In many cases, our major source of how to get women to like us are our peers – and that’s often a case of the blind leading the blind.

Moreover, those who are blessed with a seemingly-innate affinity to women – “Naturals” in PUA lingo – often don’t what they’re doing.

PUA culture deals with this pervasive fear by in a multitude of ways.

The most obvious is the use of the 10 scale – referring to women in field reports (effectively “after action” reports of how their night went, posted to various forums and sub-reddits) as HB (for “hot body”) 7 or 8 instead of by name.

It’s more socially acceptable for women to admit that perhaps they could use some help in getting better at attracting a partner – whether for romance or sex.

As a result, there’s an entire industry built on women’s dating advice, from magazines to books to TV shows.

On Wednesday, a Kickstarter project for a self-published book on picking up women entitled “Above The Game” started rocketing across blogs and Twitter. Ken Hoinsky shared excerpts from the upcoming book on r/seduction… As soon as the controversy broke, he took them down, but the Google cache is still available.

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Women are socialized to be more open with their feelings and insecurities, to not feel ashamed for asking for help or admitting weakness.

And in fairness, there’s a lot to learn and appreciate from the Pick-Up community.

I’ve spent time in it myself in the beginning of my own personal transformation.

It’s one thing to try to rank how attractive a woman is relative to others; physical beauty is as much in the eye of the beholder after all.

But in PUA culture, the rating is treated as a than a 6 or a 7 because she’s going to be that much “harder” to “game”.

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